**** How about the love during courtship? It is a kind of first fruit. Many times, there is often a short season of little supply between the first fruits and the bumper harvest. So relationship may experience that season of short supply of love. Be patient with your spouse, soon…
**** What you want from your partner is often begun in the form of seed planted by you. If you want trust, you too begin to sow the seed of trust. If you want hate, plant hate. It doesn’t matter what has transpired before now; begin to sow seed according…
**** You cannot treat your spouse like a scum and expect a royal welcome back home. Remember: As a man lay his bed he sleeps on it. The Golden Rule hasn’t failed: Do unto others as you would expect them do to you. This is especially true of marriage and…
**** Don’t start a relationship on deceit. Deceits only end up breeding hatred and distrust. When you deceive somebody into your loving you, you are going to start a stressful relationship that would require lies to keep. How long can you go with lie? ****
**** Don’t beg for a relationship into being; else the relationship may end up like a bird flying on one wing. This is why many relationships are kept alive by only one of the spouses instead of making it a joint project. ****
**** Marry the person that is ready to follow you. Don’t force somebody who is not willing to partner with you. ****
**** A harlot who is ready to change for your sake will be a better lover than the saints that would not take your word seriously. ****
**** It takes strength to say I am sorry. It is weakness to insist on ones right. When you are wrong, be courageous to own up. ****
**** Marry somebody who you can correct. No matter how bad the person is, if the person would listen to you he or she would get better. No matter how “pious” a man is, if he is wise always in his own eyes the person is dangerous as a partner….
Marry somebody that respects you and your opinion. Don’t marry somebody that looks down on you no matter how endowed the person is.
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