The secret of bliss in marriage isn’t:
Money
Education
Career
Exposure
Beauty
Fame or any of such.
Many people have all these and yet are not happy in their relationships. The secret of a blissful relationship is in giving.
This conversely means without giving there’s no love.
John 3:16 KJV
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
God’s love is demonstrated in giving. We know God loves us because he gives.
What you’re ready to sacrifice in that relationship is proportional to how much love you have for your spouse and home.
Giving isn’t just about money.
If you truly love, you’ll give up some characters that stands between the peace of your home.
Love condescends, it gives up its rights in order to make things work.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 KJV
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, [5] Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; [6] Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; [7] Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
True love doesn’t withhold due benevolence.
If you cannot share what you have with your spouse, you can’t truly say you’re in love.
Giving is beyond material things… How about affection, sex, support, emotion, etc?
In the final analysis, the one who truly love gives first.
Where true love is exhibited, you don’t wait to receive before you give.
Jesus gave himself while we were yet sinners.
If we belong to Christ we will seek to out-give in our relationship.
If you’ve been on this platform for sometime now… The repeated thought is that you should tend to be ahead of your spouse in well doings.
By this you’re counted as a believer and a child of God.
When your reaction in marriage is still based on how your spouse act you’re still in the elementary class of marriage.
If you really want to reap the full dividend of marriage, you’re going to sow into it in season and out of season. When it’s convenient and when it’s not.
In the long run, it’s who you truly are that marriage reflect back. You’re not going to hold back because of your spouse inability to reciprocate.
Everybody gives what he or she has.
Be committed to giving in your relationship than ever before… If you’re committed to this you would have evolve into a more spiritual being.
When you’re committed to giving unreservedly, you would have mount up power over your home…
The more you give to that marriage the more divine you become. Nobody mess up with a divine person.
So when you give much into that relationship, you’re not really helping your spouse, you’re building up control and ownership over that marriage.
By withholding, you are weakening your hold in that home.
When Jesus gave himself at Calvary, by his giving he became Lord and owner of the whole world of men.
Giving is the secret of power in marriage…
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WALE ADEWUMI
Always extend your supports and giving to us… Thank you
