MODULE 25
LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE
THE LIFE THAT IS WHOLE, PURPOSEFUL AND GOD-CENTRED
“Your best life is not merely the life you can afford to display; it is the life you can faithfully live.”
Key Scriptures
- 3 John 1:2
- Psalm 127:1–2
- Matthew 6:24–33
- Matthew 11:28–30
- Romans 12:1–2
- John 10:10
- Ecclesiastes 12:13
- Philippians 4:11–13
Objective
To develop a balanced understanding of a fulfilling life—one in which spiritual health, purpose, relationships, character, work and material provision are brought under the lordship of God.
INTRODUCTION: WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE?
When people hear the expression “best life”, they often think about financial success:
A healthy bank account.
A beautiful home.
Good cars.
Travel.
Comfort.
Influence.
These things can be valuable.
But they cannot, by themselves, answer the deepest questions of human existence:
Who am I?
Why am I here?
What should I live for?
Who should I become?
What should my life contribute?
What will remain when possessions are gone?
A genuinely successful life must be measured by more than what we possess.
The best life is a whole life.
It is a life in which what you have, what you do, who you are and why you live are brought into meaningful alignment.
1. SUCCESS IS BIGGER THAN POSSESSION
There is nothing inherently wrong with wealth, achievement or material comfort.
The problem begins when possessions become the measure of life itself.
Jesus asked:
“For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?”
— Mark 8:36, KJV
The question is not whether you should succeed.
The question is:
What kind of success is worth having?
A person can accumulate possessions and lose peace.
A person can gain status and lose integrity.
A person can become famous and remain deeply lonely.
A person can build a company and destroy a family.
A person can win arguments and lose relationships.
Therefore, strategic living requires us to define success before pursuing it.
2. THE SOUL CANNOT BE MEASURED BY A BANK STATEMENT
3 John 1:2 says:
“Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.”
John’s statement expresses his prayerful desire for Gaius’ wellbeing. It should not be turned into a guarantee that every believer will experience unlimited material prosperity.
Nevertheless, it provides a useful picture of whole-person wellbeing.
Physical health matters.
Material provision matters.
Relationships matter.
But spiritual and inner wellbeing matter too.
If one dimension grows while the others collapse, our success can become unbalanced.
A bigger life requires a deeper life.
3. PUT THE CREATOR ABOVE THE CREATION
Jesus said:
“Ye cannot serve God and mammon.”
— Matthew 6:24, KJV
Jesus was addressing divided allegiance.
Money can be a useful servant but a terrible master.
When wealth becomes the ultimate source of identity, security or significance, it begins to control decisions.
That is why Jesus continued by teaching His followers to seek first God’s kingdom and righteousness (Matthew 6:33).
The issue is not:
“Should I have material things?”
It is:
“Do material things have me?”
There is a profound difference.
You can own possessions without allowing possessions to own your heart.
You can pursue excellence without worshipping achievement.
You can build wealth without making wealth your god.
You can desire influence without making applause your identity.
4. YOUR BEST LIFE REQUIRES INNER ORDER
Many people try to change their external circumstances without addressing their internal disorder.
But sustainable change often begins with the way we think, choose and respond.
Romans 12:2 says:
“be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
A renewed mind helps us reconsider:
- what we value;
- what we pursue;
- how we define success;
- how we respond to pressure;
- how we use money;
- how we treat people;
- what we tolerate;
- what we refuse;
- what we consider worth sacrificing for.
Your life eventually reflects your repeated choices.
Therefore, living your best life is not about chasing every attractive opportunity.
It is about learning to make better choices consistently.
5. PURPOSE GIVES LIFE DIRECTION
A meaningful life requires more than activity.
You can be extremely busy and still be moving in the wrong direction.
Purpose helps answer:
Why am I here?
It gives meaning to work, relationships, leadership and service.
Ecclesiastes concludes:
“Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.”
— Ecclesiastes 12:13, KJV
Purpose is therefore not simply about personal achievement.
Ask:
- What has God entrusted to me?
- What problems am I equipped to solve?
- Whose lives can I improve?
- What values must guide my decisions?
- What do I want my life to contribute?
- What legacy am I building?
A life of purpose does not eliminate difficulty.
It gives difficulty context.
6. DO NOT SACRIFICE YOUR LIFE TO BUILD A LIFE
This is one of the great contradictions of modern success.
People work endlessly to create a better future, only to lose the relationships, health, peace and spiritual depth that would make that future meaningful.
There must be rhythm.
Work matters.
Rest matters.
Family matters.
Friendship matters.
Service matters.
Prayer matters.
Learning matters.
Health matters.
Recreation matters.
Solitude matters.
A World Changer must learn the difference between commitment and unhealthy exhaustion.
You are not a machine.
Even Jesus withdrew from the crowds to pray and rest.
Sustainable excellence requires recovery as well as effort.
7. FREEDOM FROM THE TYRANNY OF “MORE”
There is always another level.
Another car.
Another house.
Another title.
Another contract.
Another follower.
Another award.
Another target.
Ambition is not wrong.
But if “more” becomes your permanent master, satisfaction will always remain one achievement away.
Paul demonstrated a different kind of maturity:
“I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.”
— Philippians 4:11, KJV
Contentment does not mean lack of ambition.
It means ambition without slavery to appetite.
You can pursue growth while appreciating what you already have.
You can build more without believing that more will finally make you whole.
8. JESUS OFFERS REST FOR THE WEARY
Jesus said:
“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
— Matthew 11:28, KJV
Notice the invitation:
Come.
Not:
“Perform more.”
“Prove yourself.”
“Accumulate more.”
“Impress everyone.”
Simply:
Come.
Christ offers rest—not necessarily a life without responsibility, but a life no longer driven by the crushing burden of carrying everything alone.
He continues:
“Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me…”
— Matthew 11:29, KJV
The Christian life is therefore not escape from responsibility.
It is learning to carry responsibility with Christ at the centre.
9. YOUR BEST LIFE SHOULD MAKE OTHER LIVES BETTER
A life becomes richer when it moves beyond self.
Your success should create opportunities for others.
Your knowledge should educate.
Your wealth should enable responsible generosity.
Your leadership should develop leaders.
Your business should solve problems.
Your influence should encourage truth.
Your experience should become wisdom for another generation.
Your life should answer a question:
“Who is better because I lived?”
This is the World Changer dimension of the best life.
Personal fulfilment and meaningful contribution should not be enemies.
The healthiest form of success allows you to become more while helping others become more.
THE BEST-LIFE BALANCE
Evaluate your life across seven dimensions:
1. SPIRIT
Am I intentionally growing in my relationship with God?
2. CHARACTER
Am I becoming the kind of person I can respect privately?
3. PURPOSE
Do I know what my life is fundamentally meant to contribute?
4. RELATIONSHIPS
Am I investing in the people who matter?
5. HEALTH
Am I treating my body and mind as stewardship rather than an afterthought?
6. WORK
Am I producing meaningful value with my gifts and abilities?
7. RESOURCES
Am I managing money and possessions wisely rather than allowing them to manage me?
The goal is not perfect equality among all seven.
The goal is intentional balance and proper order.
WORLD CHANGER CHALLENGE: DESIGN YOUR BEST LIFE
Complete these statements:
My definition of a successful life:
What I must stop pursuing:
What I need to start pursuing:
My most important relationship requiring attention:
The spiritual discipline I need to strengthen:
The area of my life most out of balance:
One change I will make in the next 30 days:
Then answer:
If I achieved everything I currently desire but failed to become the person God wants me to become, would I truly have succeeded?
SELF-ASSESSMENT
Rate yourself from 1–5:
| Area |
Score |
| My relationship with God is intentional. |
___ |
| I have a clear sense of purpose. |
___ |
| My ambitions are aligned with my values. |
___ |
| I manage money without allowing it to control me. |
___ |
| I invest adequately in important relationships. |
___ |
| I maintain healthy rhythms of work and rest. |
___ |
| My success contributes to the wellbeing of others. |
___ |
| I am becoming more content, grateful and purposeful. |
___ |
Total: ____ / 40
KEY PRINCIPLES
- The best life is a whole life, not merely a wealthy life.
- Material possessions are useful but cannot provide ultimate meaning.
- Money becomes dangerous when it becomes a master.
- Spiritual health must not be neglected while pursuing external success.
- Purpose gives direction to achievement.
- A renewed mind produces better decisions.
- Contentment and ambition can coexist.
- Sustainable excellence requires healthy rhythms.
- Jesus calls the weary to Himself, not merely to greater performance.
- The best life should produce value beyond the individual.
- Success should be measured by character, purpose, relationships, contribution and faithful stewardship as well as achievement.
- A life centred on God can enjoy creation without worshipping it.
MEMORY SCRIPTURE
“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”
— Matthew 6:33, KJV
DECLARATION
I will not measure my life by possessions alone.
I will pursue a life of purpose, character, health, meaningful relationships, excellence and service.
I will enjoy what God gives me without allowing possessions to become my master.
I will seek God first and allow Him to shape my priorities.
I will work diligently, rest wisely, love deeply and serve faithfully.
My success will not only benefit me; it will create value for others.
I will become the person God is calling me to become.
I will live intentionally.
I will live purposefully.
I will live fully.
I WILL LIVE MY BEST LIFE.
FINAL CHARGE
Your best life is not waiting for you at the next financial milestone.
It is not hidden inside a bigger house.
It is not guaranteed by a new title.
It is not secured by public recognition.
Your best life begins with right alignment.
Know God.
Know yourself.
Know your purpose.
Build your character.
Love your people.
Develop your gifts.
Do meaningful work.
Manage your resources.
Take care of your body.
Rest.
Serve.
Grow.
Give.
And keep Christ at the centre.
The goal is not simply to have a good life.
It is to become good stewards of the life you have been given.
One day, the possessions will remain behind.
The titles will disappear.
The applause will become silent.
But the character you built, the people you developed, the lives you touched and the purposes you faithfully pursued will tell a much deeper story.
So do not postpone living until everything becomes perfect.
Live intentionally now.
There is still purpose to fulfil.
There are still people to serve.
There are still problems to solve.
There are still leaders to raise.
There is still good to do.
And there is still a life to live.
Make it count.