REAL LIFE STORY TO HELP FAMILIES IN FINANCES
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We believe this program meets you well.
This topic is important and very relevant in this period of financial challenges globally. This period is crucial and requires dexterity in the handling of family finances. It affects us all one way or the other.
Some family will go under due to covid-19 and its attending financial constraints. May we be among those lifted in Jesus name.
REAL LIFE STORY 2
I was there during the wedding and was given conspicuous position. The wedding was great and well attended with personalities and dignitaries from the area. It’s obvious this sister caught a good fish from the ocean of mankind. The guy was handsome, cool headed and delectable. It was obvious this sister will not suffer or have to bear regular nuances of lack among the regular.
The dowry was an overflow of anointing.
What a lucky sister!
Iyan to ma yoo eeyan, ooju lati mo.
Seeing is believing.
True to the sight. The marriage was blissful. The man was up and doing satisfying his wife. She didn’t complain not for once.
Then I received phone call recently: I’m no longer in his house. He fought me, beat me and drove me out of the house.
Three years gone by. They had kid(s), the man made her his treasurer and open a beautiful shop for her. Some thought she used diabolical power to gain control of him. Their love was pure and true.
I asked her and she told me, his business was down and for this reason he came down on the shop as his hope. As the shop dwindles covid-19 came in and made matter worse.
She was advised: Stop feeding him from the shop so that he can come back to his senses.
The man began to struggle to get what to eat. Then stopped feeding or attending to her and the children. He feeds himself.
The house was divided.
Then she refused to open up to him sexually. Fire was on the mountain but she was oblivious of where all this was heading.
The man became aggressive and drove her away and away from the shop. Then she calls.
What lessons can we bring up and out of the story to help family finances?
Lesson: Be careful those who give you advice.
Let me give this instance: I’ve been in deep holes many time that it was my wife that bailed me out.
Once in a while we fail and the wife or husband is important to stand by us then. Seriously, ignorance is to believe the man will always be well boxed up up financially. This utopian expectation has destroyed many homes.
He is not God
Sometimes he gets confuse like a small child.
We can see it here that the one who fall is not spelt out whether the man or the woman
One of my advice to her: Standing together will fast track healing of finances than fighting.
In her case they are separated but work is ongoing to get them together again.
When anyone fall, it’s the duty of the other to pull up the other up.
Another advice I gave her: Peradventure the man isn’t ready to rise again once beaten, the woman should know that double barrel grace is coming on her.
I told her, God seeing her faithfulness can multiply her ten times and beyond. Instead of fighting.
This is why we are bringing this discussion together: Women should avoid the painful path of financial squabbles that may destroy the home: what if the man is paralyzed or dead? She should find a means of moving on with her life. I know this may be a hard reality for women who were always dependent on their spouses.
Life goes on:
This is a hard time everywhere. When the money becomes scarce during Covid-19 don’t put a global problem on your spouse’s head.
It’s no ones fault.
If there’s anything to do, this is the time to live in perfect understanding, coming together and praying together as husband and wife. Don’t make your spouse look stupid this time around.
Even world presidents behave stupid and confuse than you this period of Covid-19. Your spouse and you have even tried that you are still alive not depressed. Even in my family, few days past we had to pray specially on our finances. This time and season will pass away. Let it not be reason to destroy your home and marriage and let not mere covid-19 separate your home
